Some people are amazing at buying gifts. Others, not so much. For me, the best kinds of presents are the ones attached to good memories, or with homemade touches (aka homemade gifts). Alas, not everyone is a mind reader, creative, or sadly, even willing to put that much thought or effort into your present. To save your loved ones from searching the ends of the earth (or all around the metro) for something you might not even like, it’s best to save them the trouble with a holiday wish list.

Now, writing one is not as straightforward as one would think. You never want to go to crazy and hand out pages upon pages worth of ideas; on the flip side, you also don’t want to leave your friends and family with too few options. Additionally, you can’t fill up your wish list with luxury items that the majority of your loved ones cannot afford. There needs to be some balance.

Maybe it isn’t your first time at the rodeo. Maybe you’ve writing wish lists for years, but Pretty Me has got plenty of tips to up the ante to ensure you receive the best gifts this year.

So, ladies. Take some notes.

How to make your holiday wish list

List down everything your heart desires, then eliminate

Everything from new coloring pencils to the Dyson Airwrap can go in the first draft of your list. At this stage, you can include absolutely everything you have been wanting or would like, and if that list seems extremely long, no worries, as you’ll be eliminating things later. What you don’t want to is go looking for items to add to your list, since it’ll just make the process of elimination that much harder.

Once you’ve got that master list, it’s time to start crossing things out. If the list is really long, chances are you’ve doubled up on items. Also, having this long list will help you figure out which items you can actually buy for yourself instead of making others buy it for you. For example, it’s probably best to cross “lingerie” or “new underwear” since not everyone knows your size or the style of intimates you go for. Also, it’s pretty awkward asking your family to buy underwear for you, don’t you think?

Base your list on personal goals

If you’re not even sure where to start for your list, this is a good guideline for you. It’s that time of year when people are starting to think of New Year’s resolutions, so why not create a wish list that’s based on those goals? For example, if you want to finally lose some weight and live a healthier lifestyle, some items to include in your list are cute workout clothes and running shoes, a yoga mat or other gear, and maybe even a gym membership. If your goal is to take better care of your skin, include beauty products into your list. Now, if you’re looking to be smarter with your finances, you can ask for budget planning notebooks and books about personal finance management. If you want to read more, things to include in your list would be a Kindle, perhaps a GC from a bookstore, or just generally,  good old fashioned books.

Make sure your list is a mix of luxury items and affordable goods

If you’re the oldest kid in the family and the only one with a job, it doesn’t make sense to fill your list up with a bunch of expensive items that you’ll probably never get (unless you buy them yourself). While it is reasonable to include a couple of luxury items (after all, it is a wish list), you can’t expect your studying/unemployed siblings to pull their savings together and get you the iPhone XS Max. Instead, have items in there at varying price points, so that there are potential gifts in there that would suit every kind of budget.

You might also want to include the price range of all your items to give your loved ones an idea of how much they’ll need to spend.

Include photos for references

I don’t know about you, but I don’t know how many times I’ve looked at my dad’s list and wondered what he actually wanted to say. Someone please explain to me what a Bluetooth speaker headset is. 

You can put as many details in your list as you can, from shoe sizes to brands, but it’s always best to be specific. Photos are a great way to show your loved ones what exactly it is that you want in case they miss all the extra details in your list. Additionally, having a photo reference will help others deviate less from what you’ve asked for.

To make life easier for you, share this guide with your loved ones! That way, no one in your circle has anything ambiguous in their list, and that everyone ends up happy on Christmas Day!

It’s that time of year again, folks, which begs us to question whether you’ve started on your Christmas shopping yet.

Holiday shopping can be extremely stressful, but it really doesn’t have to be. It’s all about being efficient, and never ever leaving anything to the last minute.

If you haven’t started yet, don’t fret. We’ve got a bunch of tips for you that will keep you sane in the next few weeks.

1. Set a budget

A lot of people base their Christmas shopping budget on their 13th month pay, but spending more on gifts doesn’t mean they will be well received. On top of gift shopping, there are going to be lots of parties and gatherings that probably have to contribute to, and if you’re traveling, you’ll need a separate budget for your trip. Yes, the holidays are expensive, but that doesn’t mean that you have to spend all that you have on the Christmas season. You still have to think about your monthly bills and savings. Plus, you want to save some money to be able to treat yourself.

Instead of devoting 100% of your 13th month for presents, aim for 50-75%, so the rest of it could be used for other holiday expenditure. And if you need to dip into your monthly salary, you can still do so without risking an empty bank account by the time the new year comes rolling in.

2. Make a wish list

Much like a wedding gift registry, wish lists benefit both parties. For the shoppers, you’re narrowing down the options of presents so they don’t go crazy thinking about the perfect gift. For you or whoever the list is for, you’re pretty much guaranteed a present that you actually like. Consider making wish lists with family members and friends.

3. Start shopping now

As a nation that starts blasting Jose Marie Chan and putting up decorations as soon as September starts, you’d think we’d be done with Christmas shopping by the end of November. Unfortunately, most of us are procrastinators, leaving gift shopping to the last possible minute. A smart Christmas shopper would have already bought (or at least thought of) one or two presents by now.

If you haven’t started yet, it’s not a big deal. Ideally, you do want to get your shopping as early as possible to avoid the crowded malls and horrible December traffic. It also gives you time to have a gift shipped from overseas if you’re ordering presents from out of the country.

4. Use social media for gift inspiration

We all have a friend or family member that refuses to make wish lists, claiming that any present will do even though they clearly disappointed with the presents from the year before. To avoid another failed attempt, do your research by checking out their social media. Pinterest would definitely be the most helpful of all platforms, though not everyone has an account. You can see what pages and links they’ve liked on Facebook, and see the kind of things they like to post on Instagram.

5. Head to the mall during off-peak hours

Malls are starting to get pretty crazy right now (more so than usual). If the weekends are the only times you have to visit your nearest shopping center, do your shopping first thing in the morning. That way, you’ve got a good parking spot, and you can get a lot of it done before the lunch crowd.

If your office is in or near a mall, you can always visit it after work or during your lunch break on the weekdays. It’ll be more crowded after work, but anything is better than shopping over the weekend.

6. Map out your mall visit

With holiday sales everywhere, it’s so easy to be distracted. Your primary goal is Christmas shopping, so you’ll need to prioritize specific stores to avoid wandering aimlessly and shopping for yourself instead of your family. Efficiency is what will also help you stay within your budget, so make yourself an itinerary, if you will.

You can always window shop after you’ve gone through your list.

7. Shop online

If you can’t stand the crowded malls, you can save yourself the time and energy by purchasing gifts online. Some products are even cheaper online than ones at the physical store, though there will be added costs, such as shipping and handling. If you’re concerned about added costs, consider buying multiple presents from one site to be eligible for free shipping.

Depending on the online retailer, you may also request to have your gifts wrapped to save you all that trouble of wrapping it yourself.

8. Sign up for sale alerts

If you’ve ever shopped online or part of a brand’s mailing list, you probably get loads of emails that tell you when a sale is happening. While they would be considered junk throughout the year, these emails are like gold for the -ber months. They’re your chance to save more money, so keep a lookout. One sale you shouldn’t miss out on is the 11.11 Single’s Day sale, which is happening this weekend.

9. Support small businesses

You’re probably used to shopping with popular retailers and big name brands, but there are loads of local small businesses that offer unique items that are just as good, if not better, than the products in SM or Ayala Malls. For example, Pretty Me has a bunch of beauty products that aren’t sold in most malls, and the rarity of the gifts will be something that your family and friends would really appreciate.

10. Consider getting gift cards

If you absolutely have no clue as to what to get your loved ones, you can always get them a gift card from their favorite store. If they love makeup, a Sephora gift card would be great. If they love Forever 21, get a GC there. Have a friend who is a frequent traveler? Give them an AirBnB GC. While some people might consider this lazy, what person would be disappointed with a GC at their favorite outlet? It’s basically a free shopping spree, and that way, the recipient gets to pick out their own presents without spending any of their own money.